How to Make Christmas Table Decorations
July 17, 2008 by admin
Filed under Home & Garden
The shopping is done, the tree is decorated, the presents are wrapped, but something is still missing. When all your guests gather around the table for the Christmas dinner you have spent hours preparing, what will they see? A bare tabletop? Let’s hope not. With a few simple touches, your dinner table can become a showcase for some beautiful Christmas decorations.
Centerpiece
The centerpiece will be the focal point of your table, at least until Aunt Mary starts telling embarrassing old family stories. While you can purchase a fresh or silk flower arrangement, a sculpture or figurine of some kind, or a potted poinsettia, there are other options that you can assemble yourself on a budget. Try filling a pair of clear glass hurricane lamps with cheap and colorful glass globe Christmas ornaments. You can also use a vase to hold peppermints or small red and green candies. Use the candy to support a classic taper candle or a small group of artificial flowers fitting for the winter season.
Napkin Rings
A great opportunity to add a personal touch to your table is with your napkin rings. Napkin rings can be a pricy investment, or they can be a creative outlet of your holiday spirit. For a basic approach, cut one inch segments from the cardboard tube inside your wrapping paper. You can cover these with the wrapping paper itself, or paint or color the cardboard. Hot glue a small ornament to the top of the napkin ring. Another option is to string festive beads or buttons on a piece of elastic. Whatever you create, your guests will appreciate the time and creativity you invested in this Christmas decoration.
Placecards
For large or small crowds, use placecards to not only help guests find their place at the table, but to showcase your holiday spirit. You can adapt gift tags to be placecards, or glue rectangles of wrapping paper on a stiff backing and write guests’ names on your homemade place card. Another option is to cut a Christmassy shape such as a star or bell out of cardboard and cover it with aluminum foil. A permanent marker will have no problem writing on the surface, making a lovely placecard.
How to Choose a Name for a Baby
July 14, 2008 by admin
Filed under Family & Parenting
Naming a baby is one of the most exciting parts of pregnancy and childbirth. The name you select will have a profound impact on your child’s life and should not be taken lightly. To choose from all of the baby names available, consider the following steps:
Clear the Air
Be open-minded when you settle down with your significant to dream about baby and his or her name. Women are not the only ones who have ideas from childhood about what their baby will be named. The first step in discussing names is to get dreams, preferences and expectations out in the open.
If you’ve always dreamed of naming your baby girl Samantha, but your significant other only likes creative and highly unusual names, you need to clear the air. Offer your own general opinions and the thoughts you’ve already had. Listen to his. Then put those on the back burner and work toward a compromise that suits both of you and the unborn child.
Family
Is there a tradition in your family that you would like to continue? If your husband is a junior, perhaps your son should be a junior. If girls are names after members of the family, you might prefer to follow the tradition.
Heritage
Examine your heritage. Are there specific names or customs that are especially meaningful and applicable to your baby? Is the due date on the pregnancy calendar symbolic in anyway?
Brainstorm
Use a baby naming website or book to browse through and brainstorm about possibilities. Each parent should make a list of top choices and then share the lists to look for similar or identical selections. If one partner has a strong opposition to a name, cross it off the list. Naming your child is about reaching a decision together, not forcing a name on both your spouse and your child.
The Short List
Whittle down names until you have a short list. Then practice the names. Do they sound right with your last name? Do the initials spell anything embarrassing? Yell them up the stairs – does it fit your home and lifestyle?
You then can keep a short list until delivery or pick the name that appeals the most to both parents. If you are stuck between two names, ask a trusted friend for her opinion or use one name as the middle name.
Flexibility
Finally, be prepared to change your mind. It is perfectly acceptable to change your mind during delivery or even the last few weeks of pregnancy. Sometimes babies need names like, “Hope” or “Joy” that have extra special meaning you would never have known about before delivery. And other times you just realize that your little boy looks more like an Aaron than a Zebidiah once you’ve gotten a good look at him. Be flexible – you’ll need it the rest of your parenting career.
How To Prepare a Kid for Preschool
July 14, 2008 by admin
Filed under Education & Reading / Writing
Kindergarten was once the beginning of the school years. Now, it is generally acknowledged that a child will not be ready for the academics of kindergarten without attending a preschool. Parents must begin working with toddlers to ensure that they are adequately prepared to enter a preschool around age three or four.
Preparation for preschool is not heavy on academics, but rather foundations for learning. Your child may have the alphabet and colors down by the age of three, but those who don’t will catch up quickly. It is far more important to focus on numerical sense, reading fundamentals and behavior for learning.
Numerical Sense:
Recent brain research has shown that basic number sense can have a huge impact on a child’s overall success in mathematics throughout their life. Number sense is understanding that numbers are sequential and identifying that a bigger number represents more. This is a foundation that must be instilled by around age four to be adequately implanted for future use.
To help your child learn number sense, continue doing what most parents already instinctively do. Help your child count his pennies or blocks. Rather than just saying the numbers, point or move the pieces to help him understand what one, two and three look like. You can even go so far as to count backwards and remove the blocks or pennies. Popular board games are an excellent way to teach numerical sense as well. Anytime you count spaces or toy ants or dots on a dice, you are building a mathematical foundation.
Reading Fundamentals:
Teaching a child to read before age five is possible if the child is developmentally ready. Whether a child can read by five or not is not as important as having reading fundamentals in place. The foundation for reading begins before a baby is born. There is a strong correlation between the number of books owned by parents and the future reading ability of their children. This is a much stronger relationship than if the parents read to their child.
Of course it is important to read to your child, but simply having books around the house shows how important the written word is and leads by example, in a sense. To build reading fundamentals, parents should focus first on vocabulary. Reading together is a wonderful way to do this. You can also simply speak to your baby or toddler in your normal voice and narrate your activities. The more words a child is exposed to, the greater his own vocabulary and understanding will be.
Read to your children and point out things in the pictures. Talk to them and explain why things happen or what you are doing. Take the time to show them different things and let them explore while you give them names and explanations. Later, after your child has picked up decoding skills, or the first step of actually reading words, he will know what those words mean. Strong readers can both sound out words and picture or understand what the word is saying. For this reason, the larger vocabulary and more exposure a child has to the world around them, the better their reading comprehension will be.
Behavior for Learning:
It is obvious that a place for learning does not closely resemble a playroom or gym. Children who have very little discipline often struggle when first introduced to concepts such as “taking turns” or “sitting still.” Parents should be working with their children from infancy to teach them patience and self discipline. Granted, toddlers are not known for acting like ideal pupils. But practice and setting expectations can go a long way in learning to follow instructions, whispering, listening to the teacher and the hardest of all – sitting still.
How to Dispute Credit Card Charges
July 11, 2008 by admin
Filed under Business & Finance
Sometimes things just don’t go your way and items show up on your credit card statement that shouldn’t be there. It could be an item was charged twice or a company charged you when they shouldn’t have. You may even be looking at identify theft. But whatever the reason, if you’ve got erroneous credit card charges, you need to know how to dispute them.
Examine Your Statement Monthly
American and Canadian credit cards handle disputes in the same way. When you receive your credit card statement online or in the mail, you must examine it thoroughly. What are the charges on the statement? Are the amounts correct? According to credit card companies, although not officially, it is your responsibility to find the kinds of errors that would be settled in a dispute.
Be Proactive
If you see something on your statement that seems suspicious, be proactive. If there is a phone number listed by the charge, which there often is, call the number to see what company charged your card. The odd charge may be legitimate, and this is an excellent way to find out.
If the charge turns out to be in error, speaking with someone at the charging company may be enough to straighten things out. You may discover, however, that your credit card is being used without your permission which means you have more than a dispute on your hands.
File a Dispute
If you are unable to contact the charging entity or the company doesn’t take steps to fix the issue on their end, you should file a dispute with your credit card company. Instructions for filing a dispute are often on the back of your billing statement or can be found in your online account. It may help a great deal to speak to a representative on the phone who can walk you through the process.
A dispute will almost always be in writing and can take days or weeks to resolve. Be sure to keep a copy of all the paperwork and notes of your dispute even after it is resolved. Write down the names and titles of the individuals you spoke with at each company or organization. If the dispute bogs down and it is for a sizable amount, you may even consider involving a lawyer. Hopefully the dispute will be resolved quickly and easily.
Credit Card Fraud
If you discover you are the victim of identity fraud, filing a dispute is not necessary for many traditional or no fee credit cards in Canada and America. If you suspect such a thing has occurred, contact customer service immediately to discuss your findings, close the account and start the legal paperwork necessary to clear your name from the illegal purchases.
How to Apply for Social Security Benefits
July 9, 2008 by admin
Filed under Business & Finance
The easiest way to apply for Social Security benefits including Social Security disability benefits is to use the Social Security Administration’s website. You can also apply over the phone, but why bother when the internet is so much more convenient? The only exception would be if you’re applying for Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits. SSI benefits can’t be done over the internet, so you’d do best to call 1-800-772-1213 and speak with someone who can help with your specific situation.
To Apply for Social Security Benefits Online
Almost all Social Security Benefits can be applied for through the Social Security Benefits Application.
To apply for benefits, first be sure you’re applying for Retirement, Disability, or Spouse’s Benefits. You can’t apply for just Medicare if you’re still working and you can’t apply for Supplemental Security Income (SSI) benefits. Once you’ve determined you’re in the right place for your needs, navigate to the application form.
Gather Your Documents and Information
Before actually beginning the application, be sure you have all of the necessary documentation on hand.
You may need:
- Birth certificate or other proof of birth
- Naturalization papers;
- U.S. military discharge paper(s)
- W-2 forms(s) and/or self-employment tax returns for last year.
And you will be asked to complete items such as the following:
- Your name, birth name, gender and social security number
- Your date of birth and place of birth including any records there may be
- When you became unable to work if disabled
- Military service information
- You employment history in any government entities
- Your marriage status and spousal information (current and former)
- Dates and situations for all marriages
- The names of any unmarried children under 18, 18 -19 and in secondary school or disabled before age 22
- Employment and earnings information
- Any outstanding legal issues
- The month you want your benefits to begin and enrollment decisions about Medicare B.
Apply Online
Complete the online form once all of your information is assembled. If you can’t locate certain items, complete the form anyway, but expect to work with someone over the phone or in person to finalize the application. Starting it online can save time and effort.
How To Rent a Car in Europe
July 6, 2008 by admin
Filed under Automotive & Mechanical
Renting a car is slightly different around the globe. The requirements for car rentals in the United States and Canada differ from Car Hire Spain or Car Hire France. Even the phrasing and common names for the service are different!
To rent a car in Europe, you should take the following steps.
Be sure your driver’s license is current. In Western Europe a national license from other Western nations will be accepted almost anywhere, but in Eastern Europe, you should have an international driver’s license. This is something to take care of before you leave on your trip.
Work with a travel agent or through a respected company to reserve a rental car weeks ahead of time. Many car rental agencies in the United States and Canada have European branches, so you might be able to compare prices and availability online using the same websites you normally use. You can probably book your car online as well.
Reserve the car you want bearing in mind that most cars are standard transmissions. Automatic transmissions may be available, but don’t assume you are getting one unless it is specified. Reserve the car at a location you will be able to pick it up and ideally drop it off again. It is possible to pick up a car at one place and drop it at another, but this can result in large fees.
Make a deposit using a credit card, and be sure to bring the same card with your to the country on your travels, or bring one that is comparable. The charge will be large thanks to fees and taxes, so be sure your card is not near its limit.
Before your trip you also should review driving rules and tips for the countries you will be driving in. European countries have a much higher fatality rate than the United States, so defensive driving is critical, especially as you may be unfamiliar with the style of transmission, car, and even the side of the road.
Also remember to pack lightly since European cars are small, and plan on paying more than you are used to for the privilege of renting. Car rentals are taxed in Europe up to 33% and insurance can be up to $20 per day. Gas is expensive as well.



