How To Meet More Women
December 23, 2008 by admin
Filed under Relationships
If you’re searching for a special someone you’ve likely tried everything from speed dating to online dating and you might even be aware of experts in the matter such as David DeAngelo. While these experts might have steps and action plans you can follow in specific situations, most men seeking women need only to do a few things to increase your chances of meeting someone special.
Be Comfortable in Yourself
The most offensive thing to a woman is a weak man. Sure, she likes you to be sensitive some of the time, but knowing who you are and what you are about within yourself shines through in a great bout of self confidence. Don’t be timid or shy about who you are. If you’re comfortable with yourself everyone else will be, too. It there are parts of yourself that you don’t like – fix them or get okay with them. Don’t hide behind them.
Know Where to Find the Kind of Woman You Want
There are different approaches to different kinds of women. If you are seeking someone for an evening of fun, a flirty pick-up line laced with a bit of raw humor might do the trick. If you’re seeking someone you’d want to have around for the long haul who you’d introduce to your mother, it’s unlikely you’d find her at a hedonism retreat in the islands – unlikely, but still possible.
If you’re seeking a fun woman, go where she would be having fun. If you are looking for a religious woman, look in places where those of her religion might congregate. If your looking for a woman interested in the same things as you – do those things and start looking around. The idea that single women are available at work or at a bar is ludicrous. They are everywhere – you need only to open your eyes to find them.
Be Bold, but Not Offensive
Women like a strong male presence, so give her one. Make assertive eye contact. Make your way over to her and ask her about herself or start a conversation about anything at all. Keep your eyes on her face and act like you own the place to a certain degree. Be honest, but totally confident. If you approach women as you would a friend, they will have little to fear from you. If you approach a woman like a homing missile, she’ll already be on the defensive. Play it cool and confident and she’ll be yours.
Easy Step By Step
- Get comfortable with yourself.
- Think about the kind of woman you want
- Go to where that kind of woman would be.
- Be confident and friendly around women.
- Act bold, but not so much so that you’re offensive.
Warnings, Advice, and Suggestions
There is a fine line between being a “nice guy” and being a wimp. Be a gentleman with a bit of a roguish flavor to you and women won’t be able to resist.



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