How to Have a Baby Girl

July 2, 2008 by  
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baby_girl150If you are not interested in genetic engineering or artificial insemination, there is no certain way of conceiving one gender versus the other. There are, however, various theories about how to increase your chances of a specific gender.

Selecting a Baby’s Gender

According to surveys more than 90% of expectant parents have a preference in regard to their unborn child’s gender. The reasons behind the preferences are varied, and when parents don’t get their wish, they adapt and are overjoyed to welcome any new baby to their home. But if you are ready for a baby girl and want to try to tip the scales, here’s how:


The Shettles Method

Doctor Shettles penned the most popular method designed to increase the chances of a girl. Before beginning the method, you must understand the rationale behind it. Women produce an egg every month during ovulation. The egg is always carrying an X chromosome. Two Xs make a girl and one X (the egg) plus one Y make a boy.

Men are responsible for the second X or Y. Each sperm is assigned one chromosome. When a male ejaculates, he sends 200-400 million sperm into the vagina that immediately begin searching for the released egg. Out of those millions, only one sperm gets the prize, and the chromosome of that one unites with the X of the egg, and the miracle has begun.

The Shettles method offers instruction on how to get more X-carrying sperm to the egg and beat out the Ys.

Conceiving a Girl

To actively work at conceiving a girl, you must know your cycle. Chart your cycle for a couple of months to see what day you begin your period and what day you are ovulating. You can do this using an ovulation kit or basal temperature. Then, once you know the day you will ovulate, begin having sex immediately following the end of your period. Have sex at least once a day until two or three days before ovulation. Then stop. (Sorry, guys.)


Y-carrying sperm swim faster than X-carrying sperm. The boy-makers also tend to die out more quickly. By stopping three days before ovulation, you are ensuring the only sperm left waiting around for the released egg are the longer-lasting, slow-swimming X-carriers. (Sperm can live up to 5-7 days inside a woman’s body.) When the remaining sperm meet up with the egg, it is far more likely an X sperm will get the honors.

Doctor Shettles also suggests having sex in the missionary position to deposit sperm as close to the entrance of the vagina as possible. He also suggests the woman not orgasm during sex (Sorry, girls.) An orgasm can make the vaginal environment alkaline which can kill off sperm more quickly preventing any pregnancy.

Easy Step By Step Instructions
  • Know your cycle
  • Use the Shettles Method to time your pregnancy
  • Plan accordingly
Warnings, Advice, and Suggestions

A lot of people have been leaving some shocking comments. If you are able to conceive a child, love it regardless. Trying for a baby girl is one thing, being unhappy if you end up having a boy is pathetic. If you find yourself angry or unhappy at having a baby boy seek professional help right away!

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124 Responses to “How to Have a Baby Girl”
  1. Carly says:

    I am a mother of twin 6 year old boys. I love them to death but my dream is to have a little girl. My grandmother keeps giving me my childhood dresses and all sorts of thing that I had as a child. I just so badly want my own little girl. I cant take it anymore :) All my friends and neighbors have girls and it really breaks my heart because I want one of my own so bad. My boys are attached to their father at the hip, I am not the fun one. All I am is the rule master and I alwayshave to be the one to punish and keep the order in the house. I just wish more than anything that I would have a girl. I would be so crushed if I had another boy. not that I wouldn’t love him to death but I would honestly be devastated and I know how terrible that sounds but its true. I am afraid to try again because I just feel like it would be another boy and this pregnancy would be my last. I just couldn’t possibly try again an end up with 4 kids lol that’s way too many for me lol. I just want a girl to complete my family. I am not sick and pathetic for saying these things its just what my heart wants. So what I hope to accomplish is advice for conceiving a girl and maybe some much needed prayers by those around me to help with conceiving a beautiful blonde hair blue eyed beauty. I am a good person I am always staying positive and I just want my girl. PLEASE HELP ME….I am a little nutty I know but I just want what I want and feel as though until I get my girl I will always be missing something and I need to put a end to my baby girl obsession. Anyone have any ideas

  2. Katie says:

    Not to disappoint everyone out there, but we followed this plan to a T and ended up with our second boy. I tracked ovulation for about 6 months with the pee sticks and downloaded an app on my ipad. We followed instructions on missionary position and got it 3 days prior to when the sticks said I was ovulating. Imagine our surprise when the ultrasound showed a little penis. I am due any day now and although very excited for my son to have a baby brother, I will always long for the little girl that we wanted and tried so hard for. Looks like we will be going for a third!

  3. nina says:

    i did this an it worked I am having a girl..

  4. Cheyenne says:

    Quick Q:
    If I have sex more than 3 days the Y chromosomes will swim faster and a girl will concieve?

  5. veronica says:

    Hi everyone all I have to say is if u really ask god for a baby girl just asking with all your heart he will give u one u don’t have to be buying anything u just have to open your heart and believe on him and u will see.
    God bless everybody

  6. holly says:

    ha ha ha thanks for that extra bit at the end about those seriously unhappy with having a boy seeking immediate profession help! that would be extreamly sad… thanks for the advice! i’d be happy with either/or but already have the boy, want a little girl now, and then i can have as many more boys after that! i just cant wait to get some pink stuff! <3

  7. jo says:

    hiya im a first time mum i have a little boy i am disabled and the next one is going to be my last chance to have a little girl so i have been looking for ways naturaly to concieve a little girl but if i have anouther little boy then i will love him no matter what but it would be perfect to have one of each

  8. GasWeasel says:

    If this were the case and the Y were faster swimmers, wouldn’t that give them an advantage in cases where people didn’t time sex to specifically have girls? That means that the birth rate of boys would be much higher than that of girls, which is clearly not the case.

    A boy/girl 50/50 chance is the reality. At best, you may be able to tap the side of the machine to gain a statistically insignificant advantage one way or the other, but the fact is you’re stuck with the flip of a coin.

    • Kelso_B says:

      Actually, if you do some research, it’s 51/49 ratio. There are more boys than girls, proving the Y is a faster swimmer versus the X.

    • nsolis says:

      The Y sperm swim faster and die faster. Also woman tend to be more in the mood when they are on their monthly cycle. Which is why this theory makes sense to me. It’s not 100% accurate, but it could work for some.

  9. Bob says:

    Hi my name is Bob and me and my wife have 2 beautiful boys. Even though we love our sons, and would NEVER trade them, we want a girl. We want to know some tips like foods or actions that can give us a girl (we like the name Lisa). My wife wants a girl to do her nails and other girly things. I would also like to be a good parent and know how to take care of a girl, because I’ve been taking care of boys for 9 years. Please help and email me!

  10. Barb says:

    Hi, I totally understand what you all want….I have 2 boys they are 16 and 17 now. Instead of trying for a third child and being dissapointed (which I knew I would be if it was a boy), we decided to try for the adoption route. Well it was so long and so costly we just ended up so very tired of the whole process after 2 years and just decided to focus on our beautiful boys. We always wanted to give a home to a needy child and it just all seemed perfect, but boy do they dig into your whole family’s lives, not just your imidiate one either!
    Here we are all these years later and I am telling you that the reason I wanted a girl so badly was because of my mother and my close relationship, I would have liked to have a special bond like that. I never realized when the boys were small how much I needed it, since I thought they were enough. Now that they are older, they just seem to be more into the “guys” things and conversations and Mom is the one left out of the converstion. Just the 3 guys go do their “man” things and Mom is left as they say “in the kitchen, where woman belong!” It is very hard for me to look back and realize maybe I should have faught harder if only I knew what was to come. If you are so very adimate about your having a girl, do what you gotta do! Don’t let other’s judge you, it really is none of their business and it is your life afterall! I know I now am anxiously awaiting granddaughters and hope the boys stick around here so I can spend time with them at least! I usually live by the rule, no regrets, but just want others to know if you truley want something- GO FOR IT!!!!

    • kate says:

      I just wanted to say thank you! I am 31 and have 2 boys 12 and 6. I have been toying with the idea of trying for a girl for the past few years. I love my boys but I have always wanted a girl as well as a boy. I am very close to my mother and talk to her 3-4 times a day and she lives next door. I always feel selfish for wanting a girl still with 2 healthy boys. Im afraid I wont be close with them when they grow older and I already see them leaning toward their dad. I have been trying to talk my hubby into adoption but he wants to have our own baby. I think I am gonna try and have a girl! I dont want regrets and I feel I will have them if I dont!!

  11. Kiran says:

    Good One, Know the same way from other genuine source, cant be sure but can give a try. I have one baby boy, try for it next time if doesn’t succeed no prob we have tennis partner for our first Prince…. LOL’s :-)

  12. Katie says:

    I basically did this method by accident. I wasn’t trying to have a specific gender, we just wanted to get pregnant naturally. I conceived during my ovulation week (not sure of the exact day of ovulation), we used missionary position, and I did not orgasm first. We ended up with a beautiful baby boy. I want a girl for my second child, so I am not inclined to believe that this method will work for us. I am going to try one of the other methods and if I get another boy, my son will have a playmate regardless.

    PS: I used the Chinese conception gender chart while I was pregnant, just for fun, and I said I was having a boy. All other wives’ tales signs pointed to a girl so maybe it works? Can’t hurt to try!

    • candice says:

      The chinese calendar does not work. I have two boys and on that calendar i should have one boy and one girl. But this one did not work either. I believe it is 50/50 chance. I am trying for my third. All i can say is swim baby girl swim. If it doesnt work well lets hope the fourth will be the charm. No more tries after that. I love my boys so much but would love to not be over dominated by the boys in the house. Lol

  13. Melinda says:

    I have 2 boys 6 and 8 and i like to try for a baby girl but i was very scared that i will get another boy.What should i do to make sure that i can get a baby girl? I’m now 32yrs and i hope that i can get a baby girl by the age of 33 because i heard that people said women that pregnant at the age of 35 above is dangerous. Pls help me

  14. char x says:

    hi i was wondering if anyone can help me ive got 3 beautiful boys but am so desperate for a baby girl to complete our family any tips that have been success ful to get a baby girl that have worked would be great thanks.

  15. dc4baby says:

    http://choose-baby-sex.com/ is great i have my baby boy now
    “I’m pregnant on the first try. We did what your book said and we hope to have a little boy in 9 months. We’ll keep you posted. Thank you.”
    “I have to admit I was skeptical and read your program out of curiosity. With 2 girls I figured what do I have to lose. We followed the program religiously and we will soon have a baby boy, thanks.”

    Jeff B.
    Orland Hills, Illinois

  16. dc4baby says:

    when i use Natural Baby Gender Selection from http://choose-baby-sex.com/ now i have a baby girl
    Dear Future Parent:

    My name is Ashley Spencer and I was once right where you are at this very moment.
    I wanted to have a baby very, very badly. Specifically, I wanted a precious, wonderful baby girl. However, I didn’t think it was possible.

    After giving birth to three little boys (whom I love dearly), I thought I would never give my husband the “daddy’s girl” he so badly wanted; I thought I would never give my little boys the baby sister they so badly needed. I was on the verge of a serious, de-habilitating depression. My husband, Matt, started to notice a change in my behavior. A change for the worse. Being the caring man that he is (I’m a lucky one!), he convinced me to confess the reason for my “down in the dumps” attitude….

  17. Ella says:

    Yeah I have two boys, 6 and 9, and two years ago I wanted a little girl. So I followed the e book method and I got three beautiful girls. My sister did the same and got two girls and a boy, in triplets.

  18. Hi,
    I wanted to share my story with you. After having 2 beautiful boys, we gave birth to a daughter 3 years ago. Unfortunately we lost her to SIDS at 5 days of age. We were devastated. 15 months later we had another beautiful son whom we love dearly, but our hearts still ached for another little girl.
    I discovered Natural baby gender selection methods and decided to give it a try. Three months after subscribing I fell pregnant using the dates you supplied. I was convinced this would be a girl, but my husband was sceptical. I went for a scan at thirteen weeks and was told I was having another boy. All I kept thinking was that maybe, the scan was wrong so I kept up hope.
    Anyway, at 21 weeks I had a full scan and asked what the sex was. I was expecting the answer to be a boy, but to my excitement, the doctor told me I was having a girl. I couldn’t believe it, so I made him double check and he was right. My husband and I were ecstatic.

    We gave birth to our gorgeous baby girl named Grace on May 22nd which is actually the same day our first daughter was born 3 years earlier. How Bizarre!! I would like to thank http://Alals.com with all of my heart for their wonderful program which has made our lives complete.

    Regards,

    Jennifer Evans
    Wallan, AUSTRALIA

  19. e says:

    This is so stupid. You should only care about your child being healthy!

    • KB says:

      I agree that health is the only thing that is important. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t have a preference! I have a wonderful baby boy and when we try for number two I am going to use these tips so we can hopefully have a girl as well! If it doesn’t happen, oh well! But it doesn’t hurt to try!

      • R says:

        You make the comment that this is so stupid to want to choose the gender of your child but you have no idea what it’s like to have 3 boys in a row. Yes I’m so glad my boys are beautiful and healthy and I love them so so dearly but my hear aches for a daughter. Don’t be so quick to judge. I’m assuming you haven’t been through it.

    • Katie says:

      I don’t see anything wrong with having a preference…..no one is saying anything about not loving what they get… we just all would like to atleast try to have a say in the matter and nudge nature a little…..try not to be so negative and closed minded!

  20. gina says:

    didnt work

  21. nikki says:

    My husband and I have two wonderfull little boys 5 and 3 and would like to try one more time for a little girl! This is our last chance. I have spent hours researcing differnt ways and am willing to try ANYTHING…i allready read up on ph levels and ovulation days but this is all i’m really finding…is there any other options!!!!

    I know there are lots of people out there who obviously have a problem with me wanting a girl…i do not care what you think so please keep your comments to your self..

    • Conny says:

      Hi,

      I also have 2 wonderful boys 4 and 2. I m 13 weeks pregnant and i m hoping for a little baby girl! My friends also don t like it when i tell them that i only want a girl now, they would tell me to be happy as long it is healthy.
      They are right, i want a healthy little girl of course. Good luck to you:)

    • Courtney says:

      Hi,
      I had 2 little boys as well and really wanted my 3rd to be a girl I found out it wasn’t and it was a lot harder on me than I thought it would be. I always told myself I am hoping for a girl but if its not I am ok with it. I ended up crying on and off for about a week but it wasn’t that I was having a boy it was that I was not having a girl. Anyways, I was going to try this and we ended up having an oops, but good thing I want to have 4 kids because my husband and I can try again for a girl. These methods do work though if you are really on top of it. My mom had 3 girls then tried for a boy got it and then ended up having 2 more girls.
      There IS another option for you though. It is called sperm washing. You have to go to a fertility clinic and they will take a donation from your husband, wash it to remove either male or female sperm and any unhealth ones and then when you are ovulating they put the remaining donation into your body. There is still some natural selection involved but it just takes some of the stress off of timing and diet and everything else.
      The only reason I am not going to try this is because it was going to take way to long to get into the clinic and timing was I want to get pregnant in the next couple of months. I am far more prepared to end up with a 4th boy than I was the 3rd but I have a very happy, health little angle who I have ended up connecting with far more than my older two boys.
      Good Luck!

    • em says:

      hi there i am in the same position my children are both boys an the same age as yours i am now 17 weeks pregnant and so hoping for a girl i dont care what anyone thinks of me all i know is i love both my boys with all my heart and i would never change them but i just feel i need my own little princess i read up on the dr shettles method its all about dates and times, i done what it said to a t apart from the whole douching thing thats not for me so fingers crossed for both you and me lol

  22. Lesley says:

    Hi
    I would like to share with you my success. We were trying to conceive a baby girl for about 6 years and every time we had a lovely son. It is fact if you keep on doing the same proceedure with knowing the right proceedure, The result will be the same. Well I came accross http://www.selectyourbaby.com website where we bought an ebook which explains the true knowledge of choosing the gender of the kid. Me and my husband put that formula in action and I just gave birth to my always wanted baby girl. I will advise all of you to read that book as this is the knowledge we all humam should have.
    again, its
    http://www.selectyourbaby.com

    • sezy says:

      Hi,

      I did order this book but a bit confused after reading this as in the book it has advised a woman realases after the male after reading everything on internet I thought a woman is not suppose to come as this creates alkaline and not mentioned anything like to do it 3 days before ovulation or anything?

      • nicole says:

        Hi
        I bought this ebook as well after reading Lesleys comments. I am sure the book does explain exactly what and how to do. I succesfully got my baby girl after reading and using this streight forward fornula. The company is very helpful and they replied me every time i contacted them.
        I just had baby girl born so i thought to say thanks to lesly for sharing such information
        Thank you lesley

      • saira says:

        Hi
        I bought the same book and i was little confused to by reading this. I contacted the writer and he was very helpfull and he did explain me every thing on skype in details. Well off course the woman have to come as well as the man to get pragnenet.
        hope this will help sezy.

  23. rachel says:

    ok..so if i’m understanding this right..if i want to have a girl..which i do..sooooo much!! i have sex every day after my period ends but stop 2 to 3 days before I ovulate..and dont have sex at all on my ovulation days?

  24. JO says:

    Has anyone tried this method with success?

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