How to Buy a Toy for a Boy
October 28, 2009 by Rebecca
Filed under Family & Parenting
As the holidays approach, many aunts, uncles and significant others of Mom or Dad are wondering how you buy a present for a young boy. Baby gifts are easy enough as you’re really pleasing parents, but once you’re into the trickier ages of four and up, it can be hard to find a present that the boy will enjoy that won’t get you into trouble.
Avoid Picking the Wrong Gift
The wrong gift for Christmas or a birthday can have a lasting impact. An eight-year-old who receives a “baby” toy will be highly insulted and might never forgive you for the injustice. A young boy who receives a gift fit for a girl, at least in his mind, has now suffered tremendous outrage. Before grabbing the first thing to catch your eye, plan your gift-giving carefully.
Talk To The Parents If The Kid Is Not Yours
If you can, talk to the parents of the young boy. Ask about his interests and what sort of toys he’s been requesting. Don’t be afraid to branch out from toys into movies, art supplies, video games, and electronics. Of course, you’ll want to be sure you get the right game, so scope out the console ahead of time. Parents can give you ideas or even tell you flat out what to buy the child. This can be a relief, but it also takes away some of the hunt.
Research Top Toys for Boys
There are lists of popular toys that appear around the holidays every year. Top Christmas toys are popular with children of all ages and so long as you pick one that is most certainly boy, you’re likely at least close to being in the child’s good graces. The only thing that might go wrong is to pick a toy that’s insulting somehow, such as one that is too young or out of his interests. Opt for a mainstream option if possible.
Ask Other “Experts”
If you find yourself at the toy store wandering the aisles aimlessly, stop someone who looks knowledgeable in the art of toy selection and ask for help. A mother or father of a child about the same age can point out some of the most popular toys for the age group. A store associate might be familiar with the most popular items, but she might also be there earning minimum wage and not particularly interested.
Your absolute best bet is to simply follow a boy about the right age and watch his reaction. When he stops and begs mom for a particular toy, pick it up and buy it. If one boy wanted it that badly, it’s very likely another one won’t be disappointed in it either.
Easy Step By Step Instructions for Buying Toys For Boys
- Determine the age group of the child you’re shopping for
- Ask his parents for preferences and ideas
- Consult popular toy lists for ideas
- Ask or follow “experts” in selecting toys for the age group
- Buy the toy
Warnings, Advice, and Suggestions When Buying Toys
Be sure to include a gift receipt with the present. As much as you hope he’ll love it, your gift might be a duplicate or need to be returned in favor of something else.


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